As I've continued my reading of Mark Manson's, "The subtle art of not giving a f*ck," (I introduce it more in my last blog post here) I have been reflecting on what I want to do and what legacy I want to leave behind.
Part of that legacy isn't up to our control. It's what other people thought of us, how they interpreted our actions and the values we held.
What we can control is what we do and why we do it. Many people let opportunities slip through their fingers because they are too scared or too lazy. I heard the quote "step outside your comfort zone" so much growing up that it makes me cringe, but Fred DeVito's quote "if it doesn't challenge you, it doesn't change you," resonates much more with me.
It can be so incredibly easy to get caught up in our day to day routine and become complacent. I'm a creature of habit and I find that I get so engrossed in my routines rather than just living life. I have come to realize that I have to push myself to strive for more.
What do I want to be remembered for? Among many things I hope that I am remembered as someone who made an impact on someone's life for the better. I hope I make others feel important and valued.
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| This is a photo I've used before when I've talked about my trip to Hawaii. Visiting Hawaii is one of my most cherished memories and I cannot wait to go back. This is part of the Ironman triathlon swim course that I swam a part of while visiting and I hope to one day be able to qualify to compete for the Kona Ironman. |
We need to shift our focus from our worries to what we can do to live how we want. This will not only shape how we are remembered, but also give us a better sense of self.
Until next time,
Taylor xx
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