I guess another reason I could be called the baby perks is because I'm so young, I'm going to be a junior in college but just now turning 20 *sighs*. Nonetheless, I've grown a lot over the past year and I wanted to share 19 things I've learned at 19.
1. Believe in yourself. I was so nervous to apply and interview for the VP-PR position in my sorority but I convinced myself that it doesn't hurt to try. I am so glad I did because I love the role I have and I'm proud of myself for stepping out of my comfort zone and doing it.2. Sometimes you have to stop doing things you once loved. Life is too short to be unhappy, don't feel bad about clearing your plate and prioritizing the things that make you happy now versus things you enjoyed in the past.
3. The free weight section really isn’t that scary. I was so terrified of all the huge guys lifting that I limited myself to dumbbells and a yoga mat for a long time. I found that you just have to start and eventually the fear wears off because honestly no one really cares. You may think people are watching, but at least you're doing it. I've learned that you just have to not worry "if" people are watching you and just own your workout.
4. You can’t make everyone happy all the time.
5. I’m not going to dislike someone just because you do. It doesn't make sense to be rude to someone just because someone else you know doesn't like them (obviously this isn't the case in all situations like if a person is abusive). The world needs more friendly people.
6. Budget better so you aren’t scraping together loose change together so you can afford gas and a small coffee at the gas station when going home for Christmas break
7. Fun on the Lane is honestly the best way to kick off the school year. As a freshman I remember sitting on Drury Lane hoping that a year from then I'd be happy. This past year I sat on Drury Lane surrounded by my sorority sisters and friends that have truly made Drury home. I'm so excited for Fun on the Lane this year.
8. Giving and receiving handwritten letters is still one of the best things.
9. Send people random text messages to remind them you're there and care about them.
10. The best weekends are spent with friends and just hanging out.
11. Find a fitness routine you enjoy. It's so much harder to make it a lifestyle if you dread what you're doing. You can weight lift, you can do yoga, HIIT, cardio, etc. I find a mix of weight lifting and steady-state cardio works best for me. I'm terrible at HIIT, although I know I should probably incorporate it into my routine.
12. The running/multisport community is still one of the friendliest groups I’ve been a part of. Seriously, no matter who you are or your past experience, they will all cheer you on.
13. Always make time to call home because talking to your mom makes everything better. I call my mom almost every single week. I love school, but I always look forward to coming home for breaks.
14. You'll most likely change so much from freshman to sophomore year. It's not bad to expand your friend group or meet new people. Find "your people" and enjoy every moment with them while you can because then they'll graduate and you'll be sad.
15. Having a boyfriend is great. I remember being so nervous before we started dating but I can’t imagine my life without David even though he says “k” and I think he’s mad but he never is.
16. Do your best to go to your friends events or project presentations. Something so cool about college is learning about other people's passions. It means the world to them when you support and encourage them.
17. I wish I could live at Mudhouse.
18. Don’t be afraid to say yes, but it’s okay to say no. Sometimes you need to say yes to more things, but don't forget that if you say no a few times people won't hate you.
19. The song "Life Changes" by Thomas Rhett has a lyric that goes “you make your plans and you hear God laughing.” As much as you want to be in control, you have no idea where life is going to take you. Embrace it and live it to the fullest.
Until next time,
Taylor xx
5. I’m not going to dislike someone just because you do. It doesn't make sense to be rude to someone just because someone else you know doesn't like them (obviously this isn't the case in all situations like if a person is abusive). The world needs more friendly people.
6. Budget better so you aren’t scraping together loose change together so you can afford gas and a small coffee at the gas station when going home for Christmas break
7. Fun on the Lane is honestly the best way to kick off the school year. As a freshman I remember sitting on Drury Lane hoping that a year from then I'd be happy. This past year I sat on Drury Lane surrounded by my sorority sisters and friends that have truly made Drury home. I'm so excited for Fun on the Lane this year.
8. Giving and receiving handwritten letters is still one of the best things.
9. Send people random text messages to remind them you're there and care about them.
10. The best weekends are spent with friends and just hanging out.
11. Find a fitness routine you enjoy. It's so much harder to make it a lifestyle if you dread what you're doing. You can weight lift, you can do yoga, HIIT, cardio, etc. I find a mix of weight lifting and steady-state cardio works best for me. I'm terrible at HIIT, although I know I should probably incorporate it into my routine.
12. The running/multisport community is still one of the friendliest groups I’ve been a part of. Seriously, no matter who you are or your past experience, they will all cheer you on.
13. Always make time to call home because talking to your mom makes everything better. I call my mom almost every single week. I love school, but I always look forward to coming home for breaks.
14. You'll most likely change so much from freshman to sophomore year. It's not bad to expand your friend group or meet new people. Find "your people" and enjoy every moment with them while you can because then they'll graduate and you'll be sad.15. Having a boyfriend is great. I remember being so nervous before we started dating but I can’t imagine my life without David even though he says “k” and I think he’s mad but he never is.
16. Do your best to go to your friends events or project presentations. Something so cool about college is learning about other people's passions. It means the world to them when you support and encourage them.
17. I wish I could live at Mudhouse.
18. Don’t be afraid to say yes, but it’s okay to say no. Sometimes you need to say yes to more things, but don't forget that if you say no a few times people won't hate you.
19. The song "Life Changes" by Thomas Rhett has a lyric that goes “you make your plans and you hear God laughing.” As much as you want to be in control, you have no idea where life is going to take you. Embrace it and live it to the fullest.
Until next time,
Taylor xx
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